Crossing the Friendship Threshold
Sometimes all it takes to make new friends is to take a solo trip halfway around the world for a beach volleyball camp. At least, that’s what the tote bag said. On the first...
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The Least Interesting Thing About Stefan
I told Paul I was visiting Austin to watch a “friend” play in a beach volleyball tournament. What I didn’t mention is that my “friend” had placed 5th at the Paris 2024 Olympics. “Do...
Breakfast Lessons in Sri Lanka, part 2
“What I don’t understand,” Sanne started, “is why Americans ask ‘how are you’ when they don’t care about the answer.” “Ah yes,” I said. “You’re right. They don’t care. It’s just another way of...
How to have conversations, part 2
“Is this an interview?” Krystof asked, smiling. “How many siblings do you have? Do they play beach volleyball? Who plays beach volleyball the best? What other sports do you play?” “You have a good...
Breakfast Lessons in Sri Lanka, part 1
I’m back from Sri Lanka and still reflecting on what an amazing time I had. One of my favorite parts of the trip was the hotel breakfast, and not just because I love breakfast...
The First Conversation of 2026
I did not have “spending New Year’s with strangers in Sri Lanka” on my 2025 bingo card, but that’s how I roll. As I’m writing this, we’re between training sessions on New Year’s Day,...
The Awkward Part
Day 1 of the volleyball camp is officially in the books. As I’m writing this it’s actually day 3 in Sri Lanka, the morning of the 2nd day of training, but I digress. To...
What type of texter are you?
“She’s probably the most beautiful person I’ve been on a date with,” Ben said. “But she likes to text.” “So she’s a 10 but she likes texting?” I said, laughing. Ben grinned. “I hate...
Talking to Strangers in Taipei, part 3
Fu Hang Soy Milk is always at the top of my list whenever I visit Taiwan. On my last trip in May, I went four times in a single week — a record even...
Talking to Strangers in Taipei, part 2
“Are you busy tonight?” Ordi asked. “Want to come with me to catch some snakes?” “What?” I asked, intrigued, but doubtful it was a good idea. “Where are you doing this, and what does...
This was a heartwarming read. Thanks Ted!