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Breakfast Lessons in Sri Lanka, part 2

“What I don’t understand,” Sanne started, “is why Americans ask ‘how are you’ when they don’t care about the answer.” “Ah yes,” I said. “You’re right. They don’t care. It’s just another way of...

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How to have conversations, part 2

“Is this an interview?” Krystof asked, smiling. “How many siblings do you have? Do they play beach volleyball? Who plays beach volleyball the best? What other sports do you play?” “You have a good...

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The First Conversation of 2026

I did not have “spending New Year’s with strangers in Sri Lanka” on my 2025 bingo card, but that’s how I roll. As I’m writing this, we’re between training sessions on New Year’s Day,...

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The Awkward Part

Day 1 of the volleyball camp is officially in the books. As I’m writing this it’s actually day 3 in Sri Lanka, the morning of the 2nd day of training, but I digress. To...

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Why I’m going to Sri Lanka

I’m writing this while on a 17-hour flight to Singapore, which somehow manages to be longer than a flight to Australia. From there, I’ll stay overnight at an airport hotel, then hop on another...

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What type of texter are you?

“She’s probably the most beautiful person I’ve been on a date with,” Ben said. “But she likes to text.” “So she’s a 10 but she likes texting?” I said, laughing. Ben grinned. “I hate...

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Talking to Strangers in Taipei, part 2

“Are you busy tonight?” Ordi asked. “Want to come with me to catch some snakes?” “What?” I asked, intrigued, but doubtful it was a good idea. “Where are you doing this, and what does...

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How to have conversations

The older I get, the more baffled I am by how bad people can be at having normal conversations. You would think it comes naturally to people – two or more humans in the...